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It is my pleasure to introduce you to my guest today, Traver Boehm.He is the founder of the company uncivilized men’s movement, the fastest growing men’s sport in the world.he is the author I got up todayand uncivilized person As well as two TEDx speakers, men’s coaches and podcasters.
In this talk, we dig deep into the masculinity and cultural norms that create separation between partners and discuss ways we can overcome these issues so that we can meet and be loved by the people we love.
With an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguards and mixed martial arts to a master’s degree in traditional Chinese medicine and meditation, Traver counsels men, women and couples on how to better understand men’s mental health and relationship difficulties.
While he’s not quite sure what to make of the title, he’s been dubbed the “Men Whisperer” because of his unique ability to converse with men in a way they can hear and understand.
In 2016, after a pregnancy, marriage and business partnership all failed within weeks, he created a year-long radical social experiment to answer the question: “Who am I, and who am I as a man?”
Annual highlights include:
- Volunteering for the dying as a hospice worker
- 28 consecutive days of meditation in total isolation and total darkness in a hut in Guatemala
- A month in the cold Utah wilderness with only a knife, a water bottle and a blanket
With a passion for people and a unique perspective on the human experience, Traver is a sought-after teacher in the fields of consciousness, intimacy, and personal development. When not teaching seminars or fundamentally changing the way men experience masculinity, Traver can be found obsessing over a word in front of his laptop, chasing surf around the globe, and doing poorly at yoga.
from his website“The uncivilized man… unapologetically male. Dangerous but not dangerous. Calms his mind and savage his body. Knows his talents grow in the garden of his wounds. Practice being and expressing.
Respect the man before him, the woman who gave birth to him, and the child who will inherit his earth. Has equal and easy access to his head, heart and ball. Live by the rules – there are no rules – but there are responsibilities. Love passionately, openly, and without reservation. Knowing that power without love is tyranny. Know that love without power is a victim. Live a regret-free life full of passion and purpose. “
In this episode you will find:
Difference Between Traver and Trevor [2:01]
- A funny story about the whole show being called the wrong name
How relevant is Traver’s work to women (3:15)
- My Response to Encountering Traver’s Work
- Statistics on how many women bought Traver’s book vs. men
- The value and intersection of this work for men and women
Fundamentals of Traver working with men (5:23)
- male and female energy
- Reconcile masculinity
- Find a way to balance
- The juxtaposition of stereotypical male paradigms
- responsibility for strength
- My reflections on this and examples from my own life
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Traver’s story [16:39]
- Traver feels like a man who ‘has it all’
- how he lost it all
- how he felt when he hit rock bottom
- The soul-searching journey that took him on
- He began to doubt other men’s experiences
- Why he became a cheerleader for men while holding them accountable for their actions
How men learn to be men [24:09]
- Traver’s take on what a person can be in the world
- How models can both serve and destroy men
- women’s expectations of men
- Making Emotions Acceptable and Acceptable by Men
- Dichotomous Traver’s Male Experience
What are the implications for men in this job? [30:25]
- man in relationship
- unintended consequences
- impact on intimacy
- The ability to express emotions in a healthy way
- This fosters brotherhood
- The root causes of unhealthy behaviors in men and women
Rock Your Life: Home Fitness Studios and Women’s Fitness Community [35:06]
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How porn affects our ability to connect and damage our relationships [37:07]
- The reason why many men turn to porn so often
- Traver’s experience with porn
- man’s price
- the price of women
How can women support men’s uncivilized lifestyles? [45:01]
- Our responsibility for our work
- The importance of being satisfied in a relationship
- Adjust our expectations of our partners
- use traver book as a way to open this conversation
this week’s challenge [51:08]
Note: How many times have you apologized for who you are?
Start noticing where you are apologizing for what you want or who you are. Notice and acknowledge this. As a follow-up, start examining what’s behind this apology for you.
Connect with Traver Boehm
Next is: Next, I’ll speak with body language expert Linda Clemons. You and I both know that a lot of what we communicate is non-verbal, and we have to make a lot of use of our intuition when dealing with others because their words and actions don’t seem to match.
If you’ve ever wondered how to tell if someone is lying or telling the truth, this one is for you. If you’ve ever wished you could appear more confident in the workplace, or deepen the level of trust in your relationships, this one is for you.
I’ve seen Linda in action as if she’s reading the thoughts of everyone in the room – her ability to read body language is amazing. She’s here to break down her tips and tricks for us, and give you some actionable steps you can use to crack the body language code in no time. Everything is next, so stay tuned!
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