When a couple no longer has anything in common, the possibility of breaking up increases.
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When the children leave home, the risk of divorce is greatest. Then noticed the void. Therefore, further common development is very important-how to do it?
widthPetra Büscher used to think that when her two adolescent sons would leave home, she felt scared every time. “It feels like a black hole. I’ve been thinking: I can’t live next to my husband all the time. “The couple don’t have any hobbies or interests in common,” only children,” Büscher said. Their idea of creating a common retreat faded away. Her husband no longer likes to go to exhibitions or theaters. “So I did this with my friends,” Büscher said. Outside of family time with the children, they did less and less things together, and she felt more and more lonely.
So she told him about her situation, and he asked: “What should I do? You can’t make me do things I don’t want to do for your sake.” Then the two listed things they can do together, and she said,” We always get close: I think Example likes to dance pas de deux, he wants to dance to rock music. I want to do cross-country skiing, he is alpine skiing.” After this inventory, she was at a loss.
